The Best Gift Is A Shared Experience
The season of the gift exchange is upon us. We search for the ideal present to light someone up. We stock Amazon wish lists, stuff stockings, and celebrate eight miraculous nights of Hannukah. Some interesting research shows that the intangible gifts involving shared experiences are not only increasingly popular, but actually foster stronger relationship ties than material gifts. When both giver and receiver are engaged in positive, shared adventure, the gift has the potential to deepen the social bond and generate lasting memories.
One study identified the “4 S’s” of experience-giving:
- Surprise- the experience reveals something unexpected and new;
- Suspense-there is uncertainty and elements of the unknown involved;
- Sacrifice-the giver offers their own time and engagement as well as paying for the experience;
- Sharing- the giver is fully engaged in the experience with the receiver;
Interestingly these 4 elements are part of almost any experience in the category of “fun” — and fun is something we all need to have as much as possible in this crazy world. Comedy — and especially improv comedy which has creativity and all these other elements baked into it — is generated by:
